Deborah Wolf offers embodied somatic therapy, intimacy coaching for couples & individuals, as well as trauma-informed shamanic therapy in Northern Rivers, NSW.
With over 11 years of experience in Shamanic & Ancestral Healing, Deborah Wolf offers a unique approach to body-based therapy, with grounded Soul work, that is also trauma-informed.
She creates a nurturing, playful & deeply embodied space, working in harmony with the body and soul to help clients explore core issues through integrative soul work, ritual, mythic wisdom, & body-centered practices.
Deborah is also the co-creator of The Red Temple, which hosts heart-centered sacred sexuality events across Australia. She offers intimacy coaching for couples & individuals, focusing on building connection & safety through the nervous system, establishing healthy boundaries, & embodied erotic parts.
Deborah also hosts a fortnightly Women's Red Tent in Ocean Shores, a gathering that has been running for over 8 years.
Healing doesn't always need to be painful,
but it does need to be felt.
For the past 11 years, I’ve been on a profound journey of radical transformation, embracing the deep, often challenging underworld path of Shamanism. This journey has taken me to the very core of my being, navigating through severe trauma, mental health challenges, & suicidal tendencies.
Through this path, I discovered that my essence is not defined by my trauma or even by my spiritual gifts but by a part of me that yearns to connect to the most honest & authentic parts of myself and others.
Under the guidance of my teacher, Shamanism became a homecoming, connecting me deeply with my ancestral lineages & offering a path to reclaiming my true self.
However, after years of becoming addicted to shedding, purging & pushing my body to extremes, I realized that the rigid, yang-focused way I was approaching this work was draining the playful & feminine parts of me, and there was more to life than just healing constantly, that it didn't always have to come come from hardship & pain, that it could also be available through safety, love & pleasure.
The work I do now holds the integrative wisdom of my traditional Shamanic roots, but also encompasses the work of the Deep Feminine, which provides more compassion, patience, humour, love & softness to my work.
I have found the immense capabilities of healing through belonging, love, safety, holding, witnessing, acceptance, allowance & pleasure. By being your most authentic self, and including all your parts, making space for them, instead of over-exposing them, & needing to shed them.
Now, I focus on including all parts of myself & embracing my authentic humanity, knowing that my gifts are not what make me special—it’s my humanity & how I connect to others that does.
15 MINUTE PHONE CONSULTATION
Book Your 15-Minute Discovery Call
Curious about how we can work together? A 15-minute discovery call is a perfect opportunity to connect, discuss your needs, and explore whether we're a good fit for each other.
During this call, we’ll:
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Get to Know You: Hear about your goals, challenges, and what’s brought you here.
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Discuss My Approach: Learn how I can support you through somatic therapy, intimacy coaching, or Shamanic healing.
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Answer Your Questions: Bring any questions you have about my services, and I’ll do my best to provide clarity.
This call is completely free and with no pressure—just a chance for us to connect and see if this journey feels right for you.
Ready to take the next step?
Book your discovery call today, and let’s explore the possibilities together.
SOMATIC THERAPY SESSIONS
The word "Soma" means the body. Somatic practice is a trauma-informed therapy that acknowledges how trauma impacts the nervous system and the body.
This approach understands that the body holds memories of all our experiences and creates coping mechanisms to protect our inner child—mechanisms originally developed to shield us from the pain of trauma. However, as we grow, these coping strategies often become barriers, keeping us stuck in unhelpful patterns and contributing to imbalance in our lives.
These imbalances can manifest in many ways, including addictions, poor boundaries, people-pleasing behaviors, chronic fatigue, chronic illness, and dissociation. Somatic therapy helps clients identify these patterns, gently release stored trauma, and develop new ways of responding that foster healing, resilience, and well-being.
INTIMACY COACHING SESSIONS
A process that helps individuals or couples deepen their emotional and physical connection by exploring vulnerability, communication, and embodied practices.
Our sexual nature is the most natural thing about us, and when honoured, can be one of the greatest sources of healing available.
In our Intimacy Coaching sessions, you will be received exactly as you are, with whatever trauma, story, or blocks that stand between you and your ability to explore your sexual nature.These sessions work with your nervous system, establishing a sense of safety and bringing you back to wholeness before we start to work on deeper issues to do with function, trauma and blocks.
Once we feel that that terrain is ready to be explored, we can start to shift into practical tools and ways to increase sexual curiosity through playfulness and innocence.
This session works for individuals and couples. Together, we can explore intimacy games, discover heart-led tantrik kink, learn about boundaries, consent, polarity play, open communication and authentic connection.
Please note, our sessions do not involve sex, this is a therapy session to help you explore your own sexual nature in a held, judgement-free space.
SHAMANIC HEALING SESSIONS
In Shamanic Therapy, we believe that everything in the physical world has first been manifested in Spirit.
It works on the energetic level & tracks where the current issue originally started, whether from childhood or another lifetime where the memory of the original trauma is still carried.
When we track back; we can find the original wound & clear the old stories associated with it so that it changes any patterns that occurred as a result of it. We clear out the build-up of heavy energies that block us from walking the intended Soul path that cause disease & suffering & we access the higher Luminous energies to inform our soul of what it is that we wish to write for it instead.
When we do this enough & clear away anything that comes up for us; we take our healing, into our own hands, & make our way back to our original blueprint & the reason we came here in the first place.
“Deborah holds the most nurturing, safe & powerful space.
From the moment you meet her at the door, to her beautiful womb cave & being on her table.
I no longer have the daily fear or survival alarm bells ringing in my ears after clearing it in our session.
I feel at peace. I’m a more present mother & partner now that fear has subsided.
The relationship with my father has also lightened & changed since our session. I’m so grateful and excited for another session soon!"
—AMY SOULFIRE
“Working w Deborah has been nothing short of transformative.
She's a naturally gifted & intuitive healer who holds a wealth of knowledge & humble wisdom.
Deborah's genuine warmth & presence creates a safe & supported space.”
— CLAIRE K
"To be human is to belong.
Belonging is a circle that embraces everything;
if we reject it, we damage our nature".
-John O'Donohue