Who this work is for
My work is for people who are ready for real change. Intuitive, self aware, open hearted humans who are tired of carrying shame or feeling disconnected from their bodies or desire.
It is for those who feel overwhelmed, numb, burnt out, or weighed down by old wounds, and for anyone longing for deeper intimacy, clearer boundaries, safer relationships, and a more alive connection with their body.
I support individuals who want to reclaim their sensuality, explore their desire, integrate their shadow, soften their armour, and return to their inner wisdom.
I support couples seeking closeness and emotional clarity, and for people stepping into a new chapter of truth, power, and softness., who are navigating relationship transitions, grief, identity shifts, or emotional reconnection.
I'm drawn to work that is honest, raw, embodied, and deeply human - and I love to work with people who want to meet themselves at a deeper level and feel what is truly possible in their lives and relationships.
Somatic Therapy
Somatic therapy, trauma resolution, nervous system regulation, parts work, and emotional repair.
Relationships & Intimacy
Couples sessions, intimacy coaching, erotic embodiment, desire reclamation, shame alchemy, and attachment healing.
Temple & Community
Red Tent women’s circles, Red Temple events, shamanic and ancestral healing, and embodied ritual.
I am a somatic therapist, intimacy coach, and shamanic practitioner who weaves trauma-informed therapy with embodiment, ancestral wisdom, and the deeper truth held in the body.
My work blends the erotic, the emotional, the spiritual, the creative, and the nervous system - helping people return to their power, their pleasure, and their aliveness with clarity and safety.
I hold gentle, grounded spaces for real transformation.
What Working Together Feels Like
My sessions weave together somatic sex & intimacy coaching, somatic therapy, IFS informed parts work, and Red Temple embodiment practices.
This work reaches into the emotional, physical, and relational layers of your system - the places where intimacy, desire, boundaries, and old patterns live.
Together we explore sensation, emotion, stuck places, shame patterns, and the parts of you that are longing to be met. The sessions support the unwinding of armour, the return of safety in the body, and a deeper connection to your clarity, power, and aliveness.
What we might explore:
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somatic tracking
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nervous system repair
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attachment & relational patterns
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shadow and desire
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ancestral imprints
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boundaries & voice
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sensual/erotic embodiment (clothes-on)
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inner child / parts work
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emotional release
Our Sessions will always have:
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consent
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safety
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choice
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pacing
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attunement
Let's Work Together
“Deborah holds the most nurturing, safe & powerful space.
From the moment you meet her at the door, to her beautiful womb cave & being on her table.
I no longer have the daily fear or survival alarm bells ringing in my ears after clearing it in our session.
I feel at peace. I’m a more present mother & partner now that fear has subsided.
The relationship with my father has also lightened & changed since our session. I’m so grateful and excited for another session soon!"
—AMY SOULFIRE
“Working w Deborah has been nothing short of transformative.
She's a naturally gifted & intuitive healer who holds a wealth of knowledge & humble wisdom.
Deborah's genuine warmth & presence creates a safe & supported space.”
— CLAIRE K
Favourite space holder and guide. Deborah creates a super safe space: her warm non judgemental presence, makes it easy to drop in (deeply) and gently excavate, see or witness what’s ready to be seen. I love how she is able to both guide the process clearly and contained, (allowing one to surrender) while trusting my insights, bodily and energetic wisdom.
- ILSE VON OOSTENBRUGGE
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